Thanks for your sensible/spiritual response to this vexed question. We should also be asking ourselves how it came to this. Christians should be "salt", a preservative and "light" in illuminating the truth. We have progressively become less and less of both. As you say, the church needs spiritual renewal. I doubt that we will ever see the end of same sex "marriage". It's not easy to put toothpaste back into the tube. We can, however, repent and quit fighting each other. We will then see God's blessing restored (Psalm 133)